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Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Cats in Ayvalik


I love cats, so I like it here in Ayvalik, Turkey because, there are cats everywhere. Like when you walk out of your house there is a cat. Then you walk down the street you see a lot of cats. They usually hang out near places that have food, such as dumpsters and fish markets. They are usually pretty skittish because some of the people here don't like them and think of them as pests, so they don't always like humans. Some of them are nice and they let you pet them. They are usually dirty but some times they clean them selves and are clean and softer. I like how some cats know what cat is there friend because we go to one restaraunt and you see the same two cats together every time.


We have cats at the house we are staying in. We have about 6 cats here but sometimes we have 7 or 8 because we have some that hang around often. The cats we have are: Valerie who is a white cat with some black on her head, she is Marley's favorite. 


Then there's Weasel, who is my favorite, he is orange on top and white on the bottom.


 Also Salvatory who everyone likes he is just black with some white on his chest and belly.


 There's Cow Cat who is black and white and everyone likes her a lot.


 Then Yonja who is calico on top and white on the bottom. She is pretty skittish but I like her a lot.


 Then one three legged old boy cat who everyone loves so much. We call him Daddy-o, he is orange and pretty dirty but he still cleans himself a bit. He isn't doing so well so we take care of him a lot.


 They are all pretty chubby except for Weasel and Daddy-o.


We feed the cats a lot with fish and chicken. They all love it and always want more.
There is also a mean orange and white cat with no tail. We always have to shoo him away because he is not nice. Other than him I love all the cats here.


Weasel likes to sleep with me and is usually playful but sometimes bites you really hard, like he wants to eat you. We try to train him not to bite but it just makes him angrier. I still love him though.


The woman that owns the house we are staying in has a shop with six cats in it. Here are some of them.





There was also a cat who loved me so much this happened:


Sadly, we had to take Daddy-o to the vet and put him down.




We all miss and love him a lot. He was a great cat.

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Europe-Asia, Asia-Europe: Enthralling Istanbul

Of all the languages we've encountered in our travels through twelve countries so far, Turkish has been the most interesting.  We had NO chance with Vietnamese, Thai, Cambodian, Malaysian or Chinese.  The characters made it impossible to decipher printed words.  We managed to pick up a few words and phrases at each location, and at least attempting to speak the local lingo would usually go a long way toward helping complete whatever transaction we were attempting to make.

Turkish is something of a dichotomy in that some words are wonderfully economical while others make your eyes spin.  Like polis (police) and ofis (office).  Then some other words attempt to use as many letters as possible.  Such as teşekkür ederim for thank you.  Really?  I mean that looks like the sound you make when you sneeze.

We first encountered the Turkish language when we arrived in Istanbul from our stopover for four days in Abu Dhabi.  Leaving Abu Dhabi didn't involve much sorrow.  We were ready to get into Europe, and thrilled to get to Istanbul.   The flight there was interesting if for no other reason than we flew over directly over Iraq for much of the trip.  I wish I could report some fascinating image that we saw but from 38,000 feet all that was visible was sand.  In golf terms, it was a big waste area.  Local rules probably provide a lot of free drops.  And I imagine you can ground your club pretty much anywhere.

We did get a good view of Istanbul as we prepared for landing.  The city is literally on the Asia/Europe border, with the Bosphorus River providing a watery dividing line.



Our first night in Istanbul was spent in the Old City, near an area called Sultanahmet.  I had found a place online that we really liked but it wasn't available until our second night in Istanbul.  Our apartment for night one turned out to be in walking distance to some of the most iconic buildings in the ancient city, including the Grand Bazaar and the Blue Mosque. 


Some things don't live up to their names.  Like Great American Ballpark.  I love the Reds and GABP is a definite improvement over Riverfront, but a more accurately descriptive name would be Pretty Good Ballpark That Should Have Been Built Turned Around So You Can See The Skyline.  But the Grand Bazaar doesn't disappoint.



It's a sprawling complex of shops, almost all of which are inside of a building that dates back centuries.  On our way there, I was thinking it might be like the Ben Thanh Market in Ho Chi Minh City, which was fascinating but also a bit annoying thanks to the aggressiveness of the vendors.  That wasn't the case here at all.  Occasionally you would have someone invite you into his shop as you passed by, but a friendly "no thank you" was all that was necessary to keep moving along.



The shops featured all kinds of products, from watches and jewelry to clothing to rugs.  The Bazaar covers about sixty city blocks and features about five thousand shops.  Almost like an outlet mall back in the States but without all the RVs in the parking lot.



The neighborhood surrounding the Grand Bazaar just oozes with character and history.  There are no US-based fast food restaurants that we've seen so much of on the trip in other parts of the world. 

A stroll up the hill from where we were staying the first night led us to a restaurant with some outdoor seating, called the Why Not cafe.  A sign boasted of Pizza and Pasta and Kebaps so we figured we would find something to meet all our culinary needs.

Our server, Omar, set a good precedent for the friendliness of the Turkish people we would encounter in our first foray into Europe.  He was very kind and courteous, and took time to show off his mad skills of making a rose out of a napkin.  Marley happily sported it in her hair the rest of our first day in Istanbul. 

Day two in Istanbul presented us with some time on our hands since we couldn't check into the next place we were staying until five in the afternoon.  Cemal, who ran the 4-unit apartment we stayed in the first night, was kind enough to let us keep our luggage at his place all day so we could check out some nearby sights without lugging our bags around.

The Blue Mosque was about a fifteen-minute stroll from our apartment, and the weather was perfect.  Mosques are the most distinctive part of the urban landscape in Istanbul, with their minarets dotting the hillsides.

The Blue Mosque was a quick visit, at least for us.  It was built around 1610, which is about 25 years before the Taj Mahal was erected.  It got me to thinking, did these sultans, kings and other emperors know about other massive temples and mosques being built in other parts of the world at roughly the same time?  It's not like Sultan Ahmet I who had the Blue Mosque built was tweeting about it.

If he had been and including some pics in that tweet, other sultans, kings and emperors would probably have had mosque envy.  It's gorgeous, with blue tiles that give the mosque it's name lining the interior walls.


As spectacular as some of the sights to be viewed inside buildings in Istanbul are, it's magic for me is out on the streets.  We discovered that more on day three in Istanbul when we headed to the apartment we had booked for four nights.  It was in the Nisantasi neighborhood, about a twenty-minute cab ride from our first place.

It's a more modern neighborhood, but still has a great feel, with shops and restaurants lining the streets.  The experience was pretty much exactly what I hoped would happen once we got into Europe.  I wanted to have a bakery to go to every morning to get still steaming hot bread and croissants.  There are certainly plenty to choose from in the area around the Osmanbey Metro stop where our apartment was.



The roomy apartment was on a narrow street lined with textile (tekstil in Turkish) shops, so on the weekdays while we were there the sounds of Turks getting on with their day would waft through the windows with the early morning sun.


For much of our time heading into Istanbul and also while we were there I had the song "Wheels" by Cake in my head.  In the song, John McCrea sings about a seedy Karaoke bar by the banks of the mighty Bosphorus.  I didn't see any such establishment as we took a 90 minute boat ride up the river dividing Europe and Asia.


The boat was filled pretty much to capacity as it headed north, certainly the two or three row closest to both sides.  One of the more interesting aspects of the trip was that the boat seemed to be filled mostly with locals.  There were a few people like ourselves who obviously were not locals, but not as many as I thought there would be.



In her best "when in Istanbul..." mode, Annie went along with the Turkish tradition of drinking some tea, which is served with a sugar cube.  Everywhere you look on the streets you see men carrying trays of tea at all times of the day.  It added to the flavor of our river ride.

The only mistake we made was getting on the side of the boat that was furthest from the opposite banks of the mighty Bosphorous.  We still had a good time cruising along looking at the ancient city and marveling at being able to see both Europe and Asia at the same time.  It's a little more exciting than sitting outside at Don Pablo's on the river in Newport and marveling at the Ohio side of the river.  Although, actually, some nachos and salsa would have been a nice addition to the cruise.



Once we disembarked (I like writing that word and love saying it!) we took a stroll across a bridge lined with men fishing.  The bustling crowds on a sunny afternoon made for a fantastic stroll toward where we would catch a cab back to Nisantasi.  We first had to check out a market teeming with freshly caught fish, and then walk down an alleyway which featured some hardware and paint, including a store that had the pigment out on the sidewalk in cans.

The energy of the people on the streets of Istanbul was contagious and we enjoyed just walking along, soaking in the atmosphere.  The colors and the aromas combined with the intensity of the Turkish language made for a fascinating experience.

We managed to strike a comfortable balance of seeing and doing things and just enjoying our apartment and the neighborhood.  Having good internet helped us plan for the next part of our journey, plus allowed for Ben and Marley to catch up on some school work through Khan Academy and help plan the next part of the trip as we head deeper into Europe.  


As much we like to immerse ourselves in local culture, having good internet and a nice flat screen TV with some satellite channels was enjoyable as well.  Three of the four nights we were there, the Fox Sports Channel carried the PGA Tour golf event from Quail Hollow in Charlotte, which is where I saw my first live professional golf back in the late 80s when a Senior Tour event was played there.  It came on at 11pm, so the kids were done watching what they wanted to see, and I could kick back and enjoy what turned out to be a very competitive tournament.

It's always good to get some local knowledge in unfamiliar surroundings, and we got that in friends of friends of ours from back home.  They were a married couple with a seven-month old son, and gave us some great options for meeting for lunch.  The one we chose was on the banks of the Mighty Bosphorus near the base of the Bosphorus Bridge.  The setting and company was spectacular and the food wasn't bad either.

After an enjoyable mid-day meal, Nuray and Can (pronounced John) were generous enough with their time to meet back up with us about an hour later at a restaurant near the Galata Tower that provided a spectacular view of Istanbul, looking east toward the Asian side of things.  It was down an alley off an alley off an alley that we never would have found had it not been for the help of a local.
When we were planning our trip, probably the overall highlight for me was getting into Europe.   I love the feel and the history of the place and Istanbul met both of those requirements. 

We got a serious taste of the local fervor for football as we walked down a caddesi called Istiklal.  It's supposedly the busiest pedestrian street in Turkey.  The feeling was electric, in part because it was just a couple of hours ahead of a big match between Galatasaray and Bestikas at the football stadium close by in Istanbul. 


Fans decked out in the local colors strolled along, singing songs.  They politely ignored my attempts at getting a Who-Dey cheer going, and we were happy to see later that evening that the Galatasaray squad was victorious.


After spending five days in Istanbul, the other cities we will be visiting in Europe have a major challenge ahead of them.  It's going to be difficult to surpass the atmosphere of this ancient city.  The feeling on the streets was truly magical and the people were very friendly and the food fantastic.  The only drawback was the occasional mish-mash of architectural styles.  




Wonderful old buildings dripping with character would be neighbors to some modern monstrosity. It would be like building One Lytle Place in Cincinnati right next to Music Hall.  


Istanbul is the perfect place to make the transition from Asia to Europe.  Our few days there truly whetted our appetite for more experiences in Europe, and as Anthony Bourdain likes to say, I'm hungry for more!

Sunday, May 13, 2012

Cats are a way of life


During my entire life if someone wants to come to my house for the first time I have to ask,”Are you allergic cats or dogs?” Their answer has always been no but you might understand now that we are animal people. Let me explain. 
Cats: 
Marvin
Leon
Romeo
Abby
Ellie
J-Ro
That’s 6 cats. In one house. Taken care of by one family. Normal? No...Different? Yes...Crazy? Well, maybe just a bit. I am also going to take this time to mention that we have one dog named Sophie. And we miss her a lot and all but....we like cats more though. (Sorry Sophie) 
Ok so now you are like “Umm What does this have to do with anything?”
“Well I am going to tell you!”
So with our cat obsession we were really excited to get to Turkey (NOT the food) because we heard rumors that they are EVERYWHERE! And they ARE! Which is awesome. So once we got to Ayvalik and we got to the house we are renting we were stunned! Right once you walk out of the cab they are everywhere. I mean everywhere. On the corners, in the middle of the road, hanging in window. 
Cat people paradise
Left: Salvtori    Right: Cow Cat

WARNING DO NOT GO TO AYVALIK IF YOU ARE ALLERGIC TO CATS! YOU WILL MOST LIKELY DIE FROM A BAD REACTION
Sorry just I didn’t know if maybe you were thinking about coming here but you were allergic cats so I thought I might warn you. 
There are 6 cats that our neighbor (the one who owns the houses) likes and feeds. So we have taken over them and we cook them fish and chicken for dinner. (Yes we are that cat crazy) The cats are Valerie(my favorite)

 Cow Cat (The Oldest)

 Daddy-O (He only has 3 legs and doesn’t have much time left) 

Salvatori (He is a very handsome black Cat)

 Weasel (he is Orange and White)
(NO PHOTO SORRY)
 Yonja (He is a calico) And if there are more i forgot. 

On a side note they have 3 turtles that LOVE strawberries. And you can feed them them. 
Valerie loves to sleep all day and cuddle. And she is very serious about her food (No one else will touch it)! So that is why I love her.There is a lot of her too (I will NOT be calling her fat. It is mean) 
Cats are really a thing we love and it will be great to get home to see ours

Abu Dhabi


At no point anywhere in planning our trip did we for one moment consider stopping in Abu Dhabi.  The planning began in some form back in January of 2011, and we thought about several places that so far haven't made it on our itinerary.  Japan and Hong Kong didn't make the cut for a variety of reasons.  We pondered Moscow but it's a not really on the way to or from anywhere we wanted to go.  So the capitol city of the United Arab Emirates was something of a last-minute addition to our itinerary.  Istanbul had been in the plans for quite some time because of its location as a gateway from Asia to Europe. Abu Dhabi worked its way into the conversation after Annie got an email from Etihad Airlines offering a special "stop-over" deal going from New Delhi to Istanbul if we spent at least two nights in Abu Dhabi.  That seemed attractive enough for us so we decided to add the Arabian Peninsula to tour ever-growing list of destinations.

There were two main attractions for us in Abu Dhabi.  One was an amusement park called Ferrari World.  Ben is nuts about Ferraris and other exotic cars, so spending some time in a place dedicated to those fabulous machines had a definite appeal.

Ferrari World had all kinds of displays and attractions that were Ferrari-themed, including plenty of vintage and classic models as well as the newest designs.

There are also attractions and rides, one of which was what was billed as the world's fastest roller coaster.  All four of us climbed on board, not exactly sure what to expect other than speed.


O
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I thought that perhaps they would gently ease you into the ride, possibly take you up to 150km or so and then get to the top speed of 242km on a straightaway.  Oh, you hit top speed on a straightaway alright--the first straightaway right when the coaster starts. From a standing start, you reach 242km or about 150 mph in less than five seconds.  After that it's a series of high-speed twists and turns that leave you breathless.  Luckily the ride doesn't last very long, so the terror ends fairly quickly. Annie screamed almost the entire time. Ben and Marley did pretty well with it, and as I said right when I got off the ride:  I'm glad I did it--I wouldn't want to do it again.

One thing I would do again is the racing simulator.  You got strapped into a car seat and competed against other players on a simulation of the nearby Yas Island Marina Circuit road course.  It was a blast, and my enjoyment was increased some by the fact that I was the winner in a race that included a 1-2-3 finish by myself, my son and my wife.  What can I say, I've got mad driving skills!

Even with all the high-tech things to enjoy, the kids had the most fun racing Formula 1 (or for Talledega Nights fans, Formula Un) cars on a slot car track.  We almost literally had to physically remove them from the racing layout when it was time to leave.  


The other allure of Abu Dhabi was golf.  The Etihad Stopover deal included a discounted round of golf at a variety of courses.  I wound up playing the Abu Dhabi Golf Club, having chosen that one that unbeknownst to me was the site of a European Tour event every winter.  The 2012 version was won by Robert Rock, who beat a pretty good field of players, including Tiger Woods.  

I had a solo tee time, but by the second hole had joined up with Mauritio from Northern Italy.  We had an enjoyable round on a very nice course.  Not much in the way of any "oh wow!" holes, but a solid well-conditioned and very playable track. 

It's a beautiful place, but will never be entered in a subtlety competition.  It just reeks of opulence and wealth and makes one wonder what's truly being worshiped.  

In another case of what a tiny little world we are taking a year to circumnavigate, we played through a threesome on the twelfth hole.  They didn't look like locals and when we got up to them on the tee, from their conversation, I could tell they were from the States.  When I asked them where they were from, they said "Cincinnati."  I cleverly replied, "Me too!".  A quick conversation revealed they were somewhat familiar with my work on the radio in Cincinnati.  How cool is that?  They were on a business assignment for a couple of years in Abu Dhabi and taking advantage of a rare day off to hit the links.  It was amazing to meet some guys from my hometown on a golf course more than half-way around the world. Abu Dhabi is also home to a massive mosque that most visitors see on the ride into town from the airport.  The numbers are staggering:  The mosque is large enough to accommodate over 40,000 worshipers with the main prayer hall having a capacity of over 7,000 worshipers.  Plus, there are two smaller prayer halls, with a 1,500 capacity a piece.
To enter the mosque, visitors need to be wearing long-sleeved shirts and long pants. For those who show up in short-sleeved shirts and shorts like us, appropriate clothing is provided.  The females are given black shawls that cover pretty much the entire body, including the head.  Males are provided with white robes that go to the floor.  Once we had all the right garb on, I suggested to my family that we go get some pork chops.  The kids didn't get it, and Annie rolled her eyes as we headed inside.

It's a beautiful place, but will never be entered in a subtlety competition.  It just reeks of opulence and wealth and makes one wonder what's truly being worshiped. I know there are plenty of other churches, temples and mosques around the world that cost a lot to build, I've just never seen any like this.

Not being part of the local culture, society or religion, there were plenty of things about Abu Dhabi that I didn't understand.  Like why hotels charged almost a dollar an hour for internet access.  How about taking a small chunk of the $545 million spent on the mosque to create some free wi-fi hot spots.  They didn't even have free wi-fi at the Starbucks at the mall near our hotel.  Uhh, not that we went there, we heard that from, uh, other guests at the hotel, yeah that's where we heard that!

Being a last minute stop over, Abu Dhabi served its purpose.  It gave us a taste of Arabian life and didn't come with the inherent pressure to see and to things that some of our other stops have come with.  We definitely would be ready to see and do things as we eased from Asia to Europe in our next stop:  Istanbul.


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Sunday, May 6, 2012

India

When I was first in radio in Charleston, West Virginia a tragedy in India was my first big break in the business.  I had been on vacation with my family in the summer of 1985 at Dillon State Park near Zanesville Ohio.   Upon getting back to the Capitol City of West Virginia, I was called into the radio station right away.  That day, a chemical leak at the Union Carbide plant in Institute, just west of Charleston, forced an evacuation of a wide area and wound up with more than 100 people going to the hospital to be treated for mostly minor injuries, lung irritations and so forth. The story made international news, mainly because the chemical that leaked in West Virginia was a derivative of methyl isocyanate, which is what killed thousands of people when it leaked from the Union Carbide Plant in Bhopal India about 8 months earlier.  It also caused a great deal of panic among the people of the area, with images of dead bodies, including many women and children, still fresh in people's minds.

Being a news anchor more than a reporter, I stayed at the radio station while we had a reporter at the site of the leak in Institute.  Stationed at the station, I took the phone calls from the networks that called, looking for reports.  I filed stories for ABC, NBC, CBS, CBC, NPR, some network in Ireland and the BBC.  (I remember that when I filed my report for NPR, the person on the other end of the line who was probably wearing a sweater vest and some really hip glasses said, "that's fine, but could you re-do it and try not to sound so excited?")  The network pay for the stories I filed made for a profitable few days.  I made over $800 filing and considering my take home pay for two weeks work at that time was somewhere around half of that, I was living large. 

Bhopal was not on the short list of our possible destinations in India.  One of the main reasons we chose India was because it was a more affordable stop as we headed west toward Europe. Plus, it was a place that we felt we really had to include on our itinerary.  Our airline ticket consolidator found us a decent fare from Penang, through China then to Delhi, so we were all in!

We had heard widely varying opinions of both Delhi and India as a whole before we left.  Some said we just had to spend some time in India and see as much as we could of some of the amazing sights that no where else in the world offered.  Others said April was the wrong time to go, that it would be way too hot.  One or two other people said don’t go to India at all, it’s a dirty nasty filthy place.   Our experience would end up being some of all of the above.

Our planning for India was done late into our time in China.  We were so busy seeing things and traveling from one place to another in China that we didn’t have much time to plan for the next portion of the trip.  I had sent out an inquiry to a company I found online, and the proposal they sent back was too pricey for us.  Our ticket consolidator asked in an email if we needed any help in India and when I replied in the affirmative, he hooked us up with a guy named Sabir.

We never actually met Sabir.  I think he’s kind of like Charley in Charley’s Angels.  I spoke to him a couple of times on the phone and he seemed nice enough.  As part of his package, he had a hotel in Delhi, another in Agra near the Taj Mahal, and another in Jaipur, which is the capitol of Rajasthan.  Those three destinations are known as the Golden Triangle and make up a popular route for visitors. 

Some research on Trip Advisor revealed negative reviews for the hotel he had selected for Agra, and Sabir made the change to a different hotel at our request.  Since we booked the entire trip late into our China visit, I had already reserved a room at a hotel in Delhi near the airport for our first night, since we were due to arrive after 9pm. 

Bad weather in China would delay our flight by almost four hours, so we got into Delhi at around 1:30am, local time, which was about 4am in the time zone in China that we had left that morning. 

Fatigue has a way of weakening one’s resolve to unfavorable situations.  Which is why Annie and the kids and I ignored the filthy conditions of the two rooms we booked at Hotel the Grace near the Delhi Airport.  Kedar, who would be our driver for our entire time in India, looked a little worn out himself as he got our luggage into his van and he managed to find our little slice of paradise. 

The bedsheets and bedspeads were dirty in both rooms and the walls needed a good scrubbing as well.  But there were no signs of bodily fluids or bed bugs so we toughed it out, knowing Kedar would be back to pick us up in about 8 hours.  Just to be clear, if you’re going to Delhi and need a place to stay near the airport, do NOT go to Hotel the Grace.  The airport has some nice reclining chairs all over the place, just sleep there and get a cab in the morning.  You're welcome.

Kedar met us the next morning after a terrible and late-arriving breakfast at the hotel you should not stay in, and he drove us about 20 minutes to the hotel we would be staying in that night, and again when we returned to Delhi about a week later.  When we got to the hotel, we met our guide for the day.  He introduced himself with a name that had way too many vowels and consonants, but who also did us the favor of saying we could just call him Mr. Singh. 

Mr. Singh took us to a couple of interesting spots right out of the gate.  One was an arch made out of sandstone to remember the soldiers who had died in World War I as well as in the war with Pakistan.  It reminded Annie and I a lot of the arch in Washington Square in New York City.
It was another chance to put our by now well-developed skill of ignoring vendors and beggars into action.  We’ve gotten that down pretty solidly after more than four months on the road.  I’ve even managed to maintain my indifference when grabbed from behind on the arm as I was by a woman at the arch in Delhi.  And we really didn’t need an umbrella or the hat that one vendor impolitely put on my head.

We carried out without umbrellas or hats to our next stop at the presidential palace.  It’s beautiful, surrounding by an iron fence and walls adorned with images of elephants.  Elephants are a common theme in India and seen as a symbol of good luck. 
I don’t know if it was the stone elephants or what, but a short time later, we had the best Indian food I’ve ever had at a restaurant in Delhi.  Fortunately for us and Marley before we left on the trip we started getting into Indian food, and Marley discovered that she really likes Garlic Butter Naan.  Naan is a thin, almost pizza-like bread that is served usually either plain, with butter or with butter and garlic.  Marley ate several pieces of garlic butter naan, while Annie and I loved some Butter Chicken and Lamb Rogan Josh and Ben enjoyed some grilled chicken.  Good to eat some great Indian food in India.

Our first full day in Delhi concluded with a stop at the Lotus Temple, which is also called the Bahai Place of Worship.  It’s a beautiful building with a design reminiscent of the Opera House in Sydney.  People of all faiths are welcome to pray there and we joined the several hundred others making a late-day stop for some peaceful reflection.
The next day introduced us to two of the most memorable and amazing things in India.  One was the Taj Mahal.  The other was traffic in India.  In attempting to describe what it’s like to be in a car or van or SUV in India, I’m struggling to find a word that goes beyond chaos.  The only way I can imagine people driving like this in the States is if everyone decided to drive with their eyes closed.   Our driver, Kedar, showed amazing dexterity and patience in navigating the streets, roads and highways leading from Delhi to Agra. 
We learned that there is one basic rule of the road in India:  There are no rules.  And we learned that the locals say you need three things to drive in India:  A good horn, good brakes and good luck.  Drivers change lanes at random and whenever the mood seems to strike them, and seem fine coming within inches of the car in front, behind or beside them. 

In city situations,  drivers jockey for position with horns sounding constantly.  Cars vans and trucks compete with  motorcycles and tractors hauling huge bundles of grain as well as with wooden two-wheeled carts being pulled by camels.  Just moments after I took this photo, this cart was rear-ended by a small car behind it.  That led to some yelling with the driver of the car seemingly blaming it on a small child who had apparently crawled on his lap.  The car took the worst of it, with some damage done to the grill and hood, but no injuries and no call to police, no exchanging of drivers license and insurance information. 

Once you get out on the highway, it gets even nuttier.  The “no rules” mantra really comes into play.  It’s very common to encounter a motorcycle coming the other way on your side of a two-lane divided highway.  And more than once, we came across one of the massive flatbed trucks that are colorfully decorated, coming directly at us in what would be the high speed lane.  Kedar just chuckled as if to say, “what are you going to do?” and deftly dodged the oncoming truck. 

Another thing that happens very often is cars or trucks making a u-turn or entering the lane of traffic you are in just plowing right in front of you, causing you to brake suddenly or make a quick turn to avoid a collision.  Sometimes those last-second manuevers don't work as we saw more than once.
I’m gonna get to the Taj Mahal, but I would be remiss as your faithful world correspondent if I didn’t spend at least some time describing the trash situation on the streets.  Trash is EVERYwhere.  I mean everywhere.  And it’s not just the random plastic bottle or fast food bag that we’re used to see blowing around streets and highways in the States.  Huge piles of trash are left out all over the place and in many cases, you’ll see cows or pigs rooting through the trash. 
You kind of get used to it, but then again you kind of don’t.  Clearly it’s just part of the culture and way of life and there are garbage trucks seen from time to time.  But the sheer scope of the garbage is stunning and honestly a bit depressing.  At least for me.  As was the massive amount of poverty.  People living in tents and lean tos or on the sidewalk.  In Delhi and again in Jaipur, we saw men and women and sadly children sleeping on mats on the sidewalk in the middle of the day. 

We did see plenty of wildlife along the streets and highways.  Camels are a regular sight, sometimes pulling a two-wheeled tractor with a load of goods, other times they would be down on all fours, waiting for their next assignment.  The only thing we saw working harder than camels in India were women.  It’s very common to see the sight that we’ve all seen in National Geographic or the Travel Channel or in books:  women in beautiful saris, walking along with massive bundles on their heads.  Many times they would be carrying huge sacks of grain that would snap the neck of most people from Europe or the States. 

Another stereotypical sight that we saw a lot of was people hanging off the sides of various modes of transportation.  The most common one was about a dozen people jammed into a tuk-tuk, often hanging off the back or from the sides.  It would appear as though they would even be sitting on each other’s laps at times.  We also saw many, many local buses just filled to overflowing with people and some of them sitting up on top of the bus.  A local train that passed us by while we were in traffic on the street below a train trestle was also filled beyond capacity, with people sitting on the steps of the entrances and exits to the train cars. 
It couldn’t be a more fascinating place just to observe a completely different way of life.  And the best thing is, at this point of the trip with the many different societies and cultures that we’ve already seen in Vietnam, Cambodia, Thailand and China--Marley and Ben just take it all in.  They never seem horrified by anything they see, and we’ve seen some things that we’ll never forget.

With all that freakiness as a backdrop, it makes seeing the Taj Mahal all that more spectacular.  Our guide for the Taj was named Hosain.  We felt a great connection with him right away.  He had an authoritative yet gentle countenance, with lively brown eyes and an easy way with all of us, especially Ben and Marley. 


He said he was one of only forty government guides in all of India.  We felt very confident with him as he led us through the crowded passageways that took us to the Taj. 

After pausing outside the main entrance to the Taj Mahal to give us some background, he did the coolest thing as he guided us inside.  There is a high wall with a gate that leads to your first view of the Taj, and he led us inside a corridor and off to the right, asking that we keep our eyes at the back of his feet.  Once inside the corridor, we could look up again, and he took the kids by the hand and told them to look at the ground again and walked them through the gate where he told them to look up and get their first view of the marvelous marble structure.  He then quickly returned to the interior of the corridor and had Annie and I do the same thing. 

When we emerged from the corridor, through the gate and lifted our eyes as directed by Kedar, we were confronted with a sight that was even more beautiful than the many photos we had seen of the Taj Mahal.  The marble structure gleamed in the late afternoon sun as Hossain pointed out intricate details as we got close enough to touch the glittering walls.

The Taj Mahal was built by Shah Jahan, emperor during the Mughal empire's period of greatest prosperity.  He did it out of grief over the death of his third wife, Mumtaz Mahal, who died giving birth to their 14th child.  I guess it beats a bouquet of flowers at a gravesite.

The graves of the Shah and Mumtaz are inside the Taj Mahal and are fairly simple, yet still beautiful.  Hosain ran a penlight along the surface of the walls to show how some of the colorful ground down stones were translucent.  The attention to detail, especially considering the scope of the building is stunning.  The Taj Mahal sits on the banks of the Yamuna River, and there had reportedly been plans to build a black Taj Mahal on the other side of the river and connect the two by a bridge.

 
Whether or not the Black Taj Mahal was ever going to be built or not remains a subject of great debate, kind of like how it is among baseball fans with the DH, or Pete Rose being in the Hall of Fame.

The other major attraction in Agra is the Red Fort, which we settled on seeing from the outside.  Because really, after you've seen the Taj Mahal, everything else is just the Eiffel Tower at Kings Island.  So, the next morning it was back in the van with Kedar to take the plunge in Indian traffic and head toward Jaipur, the "Pink City" and capitol of the state of Rajasthan.

It's never easy following up seeing something as spectacular as the Taj Mahal, but the Amer Palace just outside Jaipur holds it's own.  It sits on a hillside just below a fort, that is protected by a wall that is 14 kilometers long, and has the appearance of a mini Great Wall of China.
The Amer Palace dates back to around 1592, about forty years before the Taj Mahal construction was started.  One option for getting into the fort is to ride in through the Royal Gate on an elephant.  While Marley and I stayed in the car and went in with our guide through the commoner's entrance, Annie and Ben made a truly royal entrance on top of a gentle giant.
The Amer Fort is another architectural marvel considering it dates back so many centuries.  It also is the home to many monkeys.  Several of them had tiny baby monkeys clinging to them as they jumped from spot to spot to gaze at the people who were gazing back at them.


Monkeys were also a common sight on the streets in and around Jaipur.  They aren't aggressive and are obviously accustomed to people, even those of us who aren't accustomed to seeing them.


We didn't see any monkeys at the hotel we were staying at but did see a peacock up in a nearby tree.  They have a very distinctive and very loud call and added to the ambiance of the exotic land we were enjoying.

A couple of days in Jaipur was all we had scheduled and all we really needed.  We had a flight out of Delhi booked in a couple of days, so with Kedar behind the wheel, we headed in the direction of the Indian capital.  

After seeing so many great sights the previous few days, we decided to take it easy our final day in Delhi.  We had the services of Kedar for that day, and since our flight left at 5am the next morning, we had decided to forego the expense of a hotel room that we would have to leave at around 1am.  So the plan was to go to a place that Ben had found online that sold Bugattis and Lamborghinis, and also make a quick visit to Old Delhi.

The salesman at the car dealership was very friendly and accommodating when we walked through the door and explained our story and that we just wanted to see what they had in stock.  

Ben was thrilled to see a Lamborghini Adventator up close but was disappointed to be told that the Bugatti had been sold a few weeks back.  The salesman also told us about a Ferrari dealer not too far away, so we decided to point our expedition in that direction.


We'll press "pause" on the proceedings for a moment for a question of you, dear reader.  Have you ever seen a tree in the middle of a parking lot that didn't have some sort of barrier around it so that, say a tour driver with some people from the States on board didn't back right into it?  Neither had we until we heard and felt a large crash as Kedar scored a direct hit on the tree.


Apparently the black sun shades in the back windows prevented him from being able to see the tree.  The impact completely shattered the window and left a pretty good dent in the back door.  You could tell the Kedar felt terrible about what happened, but we felt even worse when he said a different driver would be coming with a new van and that our time with him was done.


That news was a serious body blow for us.  We didn't realize how much we liked having Kedar be part of our India experience until we found out our time with hime was done.  He was a comforting security blanket in a country that can be a bit daunting to navigate.  His driving skills were excellent, and we always felt like he was Allstate for us.  Once we lost him, we lost much of our enthusiasm for the India portion of the proceedings. 


Our new driver, J.P. smashed into a motorcyclist within about five minutes of taking over for Kedar, leading to shouts and shaking fists.  He was nice enough but we had absolutely no karma with him.  He drove us through Old Delhi, which was very interesting.


We also made a quick stop at the Ghandi memorial.  It's for Mahatma, Indira and Rajiv.  Our focus was on the Mahatma portion which gave us more of a sense of peace after our disappointing farewell to Kedar.


India, as much as, if not more than any other stop on our trip has left an indelible impression on us.  As Paul Theroux writes, in India "the miracle…was that India was not a country but a creature, like a monstrous body crawling  with smaller creatures pestilential with people – a big, horrific being, sometimes angry and loud, sometimes passive and stinking, always hostile, even dangerous." That sums it up fairly well, even if I have no idea what pestilential means, it probably has something to do with pestilence, which I'm pretty sure we saw more than once there. However, I have to say that Indian people were very friendly to us, and even with the abject poverty in full view at almost every turn, are very proud of their country. 

India was a perfect closer for our time in Asia.  It's a complicated, thrilling, enthralling, intimidating and spectacular place.  Our trip would not be complete without a stop there.  It's a stop I'm very glad we made.